How to get a girl to add you as a friend on VKontakte?
Sometimes submitting a friend request seems like a real ritual to us men.
The same ritual as saying hello when meeting a friend. But is this action so effective?
When a girl sees a new friend request, her first thought is: “Okay, I don’t know him. This is another fan." Therefore, the likelihood that you will join the army of her fans-subscribers increases sharply.
Therefore, often submitting an application not only does not bring you closer to the result, but also moves you away from it.
However, there are still ways through which you can still be added to her as a friend. Or even have her do it herself.
When personal messages are harmless only at first glance
After about a day, I began to get tired of this, and I began to reject new requests. But there were no fewer of them. In addition, personal messages appeared with some bouquets, cats, emoticons, compliments and greetings in English and auto-translated Russian. I opened the first messages, then deleted them without looking, in order to clear my history and not miss important correspondence with colleagues and friends.
I asked only one question - what is the purpose of these people if my profile shows “married” status, and Facebook, as an international network, translates this status into the languages of different users? A little later you will find out what these people needed.
Meanwhile, not only people with names in Latin, but also in Arabic, began to ask me to be friends.
Comments on photos
I just want to note that your comments should contain humor, flirting, and also show your relevance to the opposite sex .
“In theory, it’s easy to say! But how can this be done in practice?” - you say.
Write socially appropriate things, but at the same time, make fun of the girl. To do this, carefully evaluate all her photographs.
There is one trick that will help you come up with original comments on some photos. First, read my article “how to comment on photos of girls.” Then look through all her photos. Set yourself a goal to come up with something funny and interesting for every photo of her.
You won’t be able to do this on all the photos, but you can come up with great comments on some. Choose literally the 3 best ones from them, and send them to the photos you have chosen. Well, then you can use any of two options: start communicating and add yourself as a friend, or continue to wait and comment on photos without correspondence without adding yourself as a friend.
Break the pattern
If we consider that all the beautiful young ladies in contact are accustomed to the fact that everyone is added to them as friends, then we can act differently.
While developing interesting communication with her, do not take any actions (except sending your messages). Neither adding as a friend, nor an invitation to a meeting, nor an offer to exchange contacts - none of this should happen. When confronted with this behavior, she will immediately begin to doubt her own attractiveness to you. And the longer you delay, the more doubts there will be in her head.
Believe me, she will definitely want to dispel them. Therefore, she can add you as a friend herself. Try to continue communication without adding her as a friend right away.
If he asks why you don’t add it, then say “I’ll look now” and only then add it. If she doesn’t ask, then do it during the second conversation after submitting her application. This will show your new friend that you:
- confident
- not confused (you think it’s normal not to immediately see who is being added to your friends)
- in demand among girls
The most terrible thing that became the last straw
Almost immediately after this, something happened that made me spend half the night manually deleting every foreigner, just to get rid of it forever.
It turns out that Facebook has a video calling option. My smartphone beeped unusually, and I saw a call from someone with a foreign name. I was surprised by such impudence - I don’t even call people I know via video without first agreeing in correspondence
Well, I ignored the call, and Zhenya said: “Next time, give me the phone!”
Not even 10 minutes had passed when another video call rang out. I gave the smartphone to my husband and went to the nursery. According to Zhenya, a naked (!) man was sitting on the other side of the screen and was performing characteristic actions.
When Zhenya told me this, I thought that I would die of shame that I, such an uneasy person in life, did not turn on query filtering in time and ran into this nightmare.
Great profile
Well, you can just make it good.
