How to find real friends 9 tips for finding friends

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How to recognize lying friends?

Friends. The importance of your environment

You can be outgoing, interesting, friendly and cool, but still not have friends. We lose old friends very easily, but finding new ones will be an almost impossible task. What to do if you spend the weekend alone, no one invites you to go out, no one texts on your phone and no friends at all?

When you are at school or university, friends will be a common thing, but over time they gradually disappear. Sometimes even while studying it is difficult to find friends. Sometimes it seems like it’s some kind of misfortune or curse that it’s so difficult to find life comrades.

Be active in finding friends

You need to be active. Friends, they don’t come on their own and they don’t lie on the road on their own. They really need to be found. You should not rely on the unfair fate that they did not come to you and did not appear on their own. They will not appear on their own and will not come on their own.

Friends don't lie on the road

Some effort needs to be made, something needs to be done, so it is imperative to be open to new contacts and generally friendly.

Don't be prejudiced

No first impressions, no preconceptions. The first impression is an illusion that greatly interferes with our lives. So we saw a person and in the first second we already formed our opinion about him. It’s not for nothing that psychologists say that the general impression of a person is 50 percent of the first impression.

Don't be prejudiced

But what is this most notorious first impression based on? Exclusively on some template and absolutely abstract ideas. About the fact that if he looks like this, then he is such a person. Seriously?

Meanwhile, this greatly prevents a person from actually opening up. After all, if we want to find a deep connection and a true friend, then how can we rely on some external stereotyped and standard manifestations?

Manual sending of invitations

To begin with, let’s talk about the very mechanism of “friendship” in a social network. In order to add a person as a friend, you need to find him through the search bar, go to the page and send the appropriate request.

Attention! You can also find a user by ID, of course, if you know the page code.

Next, the user accepts the request and becomes a friend or rejects the request, and then you become a subscriber of this person. It follows that a large number of friends is the result of mass mailing of offers. It's quite easy to do this:

• In the VK search bar, enter criteria that meet your requirements (or meet the parameters of the target audience).
• Go to each user's page and send him a friend request.
• Wait until the application is accepted or rejected.

Attention! One user can send no more than 190 requests per day.

This method is the most natural and legal way to increase your base of friends and subscribers. It requires time, patience and effort, but will definitely lead to the desired results.

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How to find new contacts. Be sociable and friendly

It often happens that in order to find one good friend you need to contact many people. This will require sociability skills and interest in people on your part.

Be sociable and friendly

Develop the ability to speak easily and naturally in any environment with any person. This will greatly help you find new contacts. That is, literally, when you meet a person and can exchange two phrases “how are you, everything is fine?” .

If you support this with each person, then it will be much easier for you to be with him and communicate on more serious, deep topics later.

It will also be much easier for you to make new connections and new acquaintances, because you will generally come across as a friendlier and more sociable person

Service for making friends Olike

Olike is a great tool for creating a large base of friends. To work with it you need to know a few tricks:

• To get started, you need to go to olike.ru.
• Log in through your VK profile.
• In the special form, indicate a working e-mail. Check the boxes regarding the processing of personal data. Click the “Agree” button.
• Click on the “Add friends for free” button.
• In the window that opens, a link to the user’s page will be given; you need to go to it and add the user as a friend.
• Repeat steps 4-5 as many times as necessary.

In addition, the service allows you to order paid promotion of friends. To do this you need:

• Top up your account in a convenient way.
• Enter the “Order for VKontakte” section and select “Friends”.
• In a special form, note the order completion time, its cost and a link to your page.
• Click on the button “I agree with the rules. Order".

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Don't be principled

Forget about principles, for example, he offended me and this is a matter of principle. I'll never say hello to him again. I'm not saying you shouldn't be unprincipled. No, I’m saying that there shouldn’t be far-fetched principles that actually prevent you from living.

reconciliation

If you have come up with the principle that he offended me and now he must apologize to me, you will simply suffer from it .

If you want to communicate with a person, but you think that he has offended you, then just come to talk to him and say: “I don’t hold a grudge against you, everything is fine, I just hope that this won’t happen again... Let’s continue communication.” This is the position of an adequate person.

Look for friends in clubs with similar interests

It’s great to find good and cool friends with whom you will be interested in communicating in any interest groups and clubs. I think you are unlikely to find them in nightclubs, but in hobby clubs you will definitely find them.

workout

Of course, there are such clubs on the Internet, various communities, but a large number of events are held live. In fact, looking for friends live is much more rational than via the Internet.

In general, nothing unites people more than common goals and common interests. This is true in friendships and relationships.

Socelin.ru - site for making friends on VKontakte

This platform offers only paid services for quickly recruiting a large number of friends on VK. For relatively little money, you will receive a formed user base with a minimal percentage of further refusal. In order to place an order, you need:

• Follow the link socelin.ru/nakrutka_vkontakte.html.
• Fill in all required fields in the order form.
• Select a suitable tariff plan and pay for it.

Immediately after making payment, the system will begin searching and adding friends to your page.

There are several ways to quickly get the target audience of your page. As a rule, such methods are in demand at the very beginning of SMM promotion. In the next stages, the number of friends will grow independently through reposts of recruited users. Of course, if there is quality content.

Become a volunteer

This topic is cool, but not for everyone. Become a volunteer. Volunteer in absolutely any field, because both in your city and I’m almost sure in any country there are a huge number of organizations that invite volunteers.

volunteer

Yes, people work there, either for free or for a nominal fee, but they work for an idea. And most importantly, they work in a community of people who share common interests and common values. They have something to talk about together and have fun spending time together.

That’s why people volunteer, well, of course, not only that, but this is one of the reasons. Moreover, there are even international volunteer organizations where people from all over the world are invited. You may have the opportunity to travel and communicate with like-minded people.

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