In order to make VKontakte correspondence more interesting, you can try playing games with your interlocutor. Moreover, this option is especially suitable for communicating with a girl, since it can attract her attention, and at the same time it will be easier for you to make friends with her.
There are many games you can play using typing. Here are some examples:
“Deciphering” - unravel the meaning of the word
The point of this game is that you write an encrypted word consisting, for example, only of consonants, and the interlocutor needs to guess what kind of word it is. It could also be an encrypted institution.
For example:
You: "AT"
Girl: "Author's television"
Girl: "VRO"
You: “All-Russian Robotics Olympiad.”
Naturally, these ciphers may require hints, so this will be additional communication.
Game “Smileys” VK with answers for a girl: pictures
There is another exciting VK game for girls “Smileys” . Its essence is that you send her a picture with emoticons and offer to choose any emoticon you like. She writes his number, and in response you send another picture, which has a transcript of each number with emoticons. As a result, she must do what is indicated in the answers under her chosen emoticon. For example:
- Send her a picture.
Game "Smileys" VK with answers
- When she makes a choice, for example, No. 5, send her the picture again in response.
Game "Smileys" VK with answers
According to her choice, the number 5 means that she should fulfill your 2 wishes. Below you will find several pictures for such a game - choose and spend your free time with your girl in an interesting and exciting way.
Game "Smileys" VK with answers Game "Smileys" VK with answers Game "Smileys" VK with answers
You can simply send emoticons with numbers and come up with the answers yourself. When the girl chooses an answer, you write to her what it means and what she should do. Good luck!
“Search for the positive” - play for the mood
This is a game that can improve your mood and also determine how optimistic your interlocutor is. The point of this game is that you describe a sad event, and your interlocutor must write what advantages can be seen in this unpleasant situation. For example:
You: “I ended up in the hospital”
Girl: “I’ll be able to relax and sleep, and my friends will take care of me by visiting me in the hospital.”
You: “It’s raining and cold outside”
Girl: “A great opportunity to stay at home, wrap yourself in a blanket and drink hot cocoa while looking out the window.”
What to play on VK by correspondence
Social networks are an integral part of our lives. This is where 70% of our communication takes place. But if in real life we are always interested in spending time with friends or significant other. What should you do if you met (have met) a nice girl or an interesting guy, and the distance between you is a thousand kilometers. There are ways to make communication unforgettable and maintain interest in each other. I offer ideas and examples of games in VK by correspondence with a friend or girlfriend, or your future love.
Games by correspondence on VKontakte with friends.
Let's look at a few examples of correspondence games that you can play with your friends on the VKontakte social network:
Correspondence game in VK “Deciphering”
She is very funny. Because everyone has completely different associations that come to mind, and sometimes they are completely ridiculous, but incredibly funny. You need to write different abbreviations to each other. And another person should try to write a transcript for them.
For example: VK - wash the pan, PMS - after massage syndrome.
Game by correspondence in VK: “Plus and Minus”
Very suitable if you need to support a friend or cheer him up. Allows you to look at life situations from different angles. One person writes a short phrase, and the second must write its pros and cons.
For example: it started to rain outside. The downside is that you will have to carry an umbrella with you. Plus - another reason to invite friends to a cozy cafe.
Game of correspondence in VK “Yes, but...”
And this VKontakte correspondence game will make even the laziest person “use their brains.” One person writes a phrase, and the second must supplement it with the words “yes, but” and his continuation.
Eg:
It gets dark early in winter. Yes, but you can see a beautiful sunset even in winter. Yes, but if you look at him, you might miss an interesting broadcast on Instagram. Yes, but it’s better to go to the cinema at night.
Correspondence game in VK “Oblom”
A great mood is guaranteed. One person must write some action, and the second person writes something funny that “breaks” the phrase.
Eg:
— I drink delicious coffee. - I add salt.
— I’m watching an interesting film in the cinema. “And there’s a man sitting next to him loudly chewing popcorn.”
Why try this?i
Exciting foreplay is an important part of good sex. Many women and some men need a specific environment to feel aroused—this is completely normal and is called “responsive attraction.” When all factors that distract from pleasure have been eliminated, you can move on to flirting and foreplay.
Messaging can be hot foreplay. It has a number of unique advantages. For example, you can start sexual play before you even meet your partner. The journey home can become exciting and long if your partner knows that you are completely naked waiting for him in the bathroom. By teasing each other with text and photos ahead of time, you'll both be horny by the time you meet.
Even if a meeting is not planned, exchanging erotic messages with a partner can make even habitual masturbation a vivid experience.
This is a good opportunity to explore your sexual fantasies and also an opportunity to discuss them with your partner. When exchanging messages, it is easier to share what is sometimes embarrassing to say in person.
Sexting can be an opportunity to bring Dirty Talk into your sex life if you're turned on by dirty talk and would like to try it, but don't know how to get started. It allows you to improve in “dirty talk”, helps you overcome embarrassment, teaches you to openly discuss your desires with your partner and fantasize out loud. All this can enrich your sex life, diversify it and make it more enjoyable.
Plus, this practice will make you and your partner feel desired. The messages you exchange throughout the day will constantly remind you that your partner finds you attractive, wants you, and fantasizes about you.
Sexting can be your shared little secret. Having received an erotic message from you in the middle of a business meeting, your partner may find the need to hold up a face in a new way arousing, as well as revel in the idea that it's just for the two of you. Mystery not only excites, but also brings together.
How to prove your opinion
A very interesting way to diversify communication would be a game, which is widespread in the West, and it only requires a company of people. No more objects, furnishings or other “tinsel” are needed.
Each conference participant prepares a short presentation on what he considers important. It doesn't have to be really important. For example, he can try to prove for three minutes that toilet paper should be hung with the tail out (or vice versa against the wall). After he finishes, he will be asked questions and must spend at least five minutes answering them and proving his position in a direct argument.
Times may change, but you get the idea. It is enough to simply start a dialogue and a constructive debate in which no one will condemn or criticize anyone, since everyone is involved in the process of this comic competition and pseudo-serious discussion.
After everyone has spoken and asked each other questions, a vote can be held to see who was most effective. You could even set up a small prize for that person. For example, everyone chip in and take him to a cafe when the quarantine is over.
Feel like Musk, who proves to everyone that SpaxeX is cool.
With this game you will not only have a good time, but also practice your speaking skills. It's not just interesting, but also very useful.
Things to consider
Take care of quality communication
Bad internet can ruin an online party. Nothing will work if the image jerks and the sound disappears. So look for a place in the house where the signal is best. A high-quality headset will also come in handy so that you can all hear each other well and no extraneous sounds interfere with your communication.
Don't bother others
An online party can also be loud, so find out when the quiet hour is in your area, and after this time do not play loud music, do not shout, do not jump. Also remember about the comfort of those people who live in the same apartment with you. Perhaps they do not plan to take part in your holiday and want to relax quietly. Try not to disturb them.
Have you already organized online parties? Tell us in the comments.
How to communicate with relatives during quarantine
The possibilities of social communication are now at such a level that anyone can at any time contact their acquaintances whom they have not seen for a long time and really want to communicate with them. For this purpose, there is video communication within all popular instant messengers, and there are also separate applications that we have already talked about, including their disadvantages and dangers.
The main thing is not the tool, but what you do with it. That is, it is not the program through which communication takes place that is important, but the communication itself. However, despite all the shortcomings, for everyday communication of a large number of people the easiest way is to use the ZOOM service. I don’t really like it, but in group communication its combination of simplicity and possibility is probably optimal. However, you can choose another option. Even important professors advise resorting to the method of entertainment that I will now tell you about.
“When you're in a more positive frame of mind through play, laughter and socializing, you see things in a broader perspective,” said Dr. Emma Seppälä, a psychologist at Yale University.
The same doctor who “drowns” for communication.
According to Dr. Seppälä, social connection is “the greatest human need after food and shelter.”
How not to get bored during quarantine
In order not to get bored, when almost a month of self-isolation has passed and it is unclear when it will end, you need to prepare to entertain yourself. The examples above will help you with this. Of course, variations of these tips or other games are possible, but you get the idea. The main thing is to find those who will be ready to support your endeavors.
Although, as practice shows, many people are not ready for experiments and new initiatives at first. But once you push them towards it, they will be very glad that you got them into it.
Replies to guy's messages
Imagine he wrote a message. Try to answer right away. What might be the answer to his “hello”:
- Hello! How are you doing?
- Hello! What new has happened to you lately?
- Hi! How is the mood today?
- Good afternoon! How do you plan to spend the day?
- Hi! What news is heard on the horizons of life?
- (Name), hello to you! Would you like to talk to me about pleasant things?
- Greetings! What do you expect from today?
- Hello! What are you doing at home in such great weather?
- I'm glad I'm writing to you now! Do you believe in fairy tales and miracles?
- How are you doing, my dear friend?
- Intuition told me that you would write to me. Thank you for finding time for me.
- Have a good day! Have you already made plans for today?
- What are you thinking about right now?
- Hello. What would you like to talk about at this moment?
- And I just wanted to send you a message! Well hello!
