What to text a girl you like to make her melt?
Many young people are faced with the question: what phrases to say and what words to write to the girl you like so that she melts? Far from her, everyone can immediately pick up the right compliments and pleasant phrases that will help touch her heart and make a favorable impression. Therefore, let's look at a few examples, preparations and secrets of what to write to the girl you like. This will help diversify your vocabulary, tell the girl in a non-trivial way about your attitude towards her and force her to pay especially close attention. Examples:
- “You are the most beautiful at this party!”
- “I can’t take my eyes off you when your eyes shine with happiness.”
- “I always love you: when you are happy, and when you make fun of me, and when you are a little tired, and even when you swear: at such moments you shine, and I want to admire you endlessly!”
Are you starting to notice that the girl is interested? But what should you write to a girl so that she will completely melt and remember your words? You can write the following messages:
- “You are very unusual - I don’t know what to expect from you. We are always interested in each other!”
- “If I’m sure that you’re my girlfriend, then I’m ready to do anything for you!”
- “I know that next to you, I will succeed in everything!”
An ideal post on VKontakte that won’t be scrolled through!
When I started doing SMM, it was an intuitive wandering in the dark. I stumbled over surveys and pictures, pulled out either fictional stories or advertising posts with a direct offer. I got acquainted with the content of other groups, read the manuals, and poured more and more information into the chaos of SMM knowledge. Until the first experience came, illuminating the disassembled mosaic of the future skill with a dim light bulb.
It wasn’t immediately possible to connect my posts with reader recognition. The path was long. Over time, a set of rules was formed in my head on how to write in a way that would be interesting, involve and leave the reader with the text until the end. And now I share it with you.
6 character traits of an ideal post
1. He understands . An ideal post targets the target audience and causes a deja vu effect. It's like meeting an old friend who tells a new story in a way you've heard many times before. He speaks the language of those to whom the message is addressed, it contains slang and introductory words like: in general, it would seem, etc.
The ideal post is seen by your target audience, i.e. he walks where he is needed. In groups with similar topics, in which there are those who will be interested in your proposal. Typically, untargeted advertising is annoying and has little effect.
2. He is emotional. Its content excites the target audience. Find a value and build your text around it. Values are health, money, love, family, etc. Back up the value with emotion. Operate with fear, tell the person what could happen if he does not take your advice or suggestion. Intrigue, tell a little something personal about yourself that will interest the reader:
When I started studying marketing, strange things happened to me. As soon as I started reading a book or an article, I immediately received a lot of calls and messages. I had to distract myself and do other things...
Cause envy:
Why does your friend constantly change girls, and you are alone?
3. He disposes. The ideal post has a plot, is lively and energetic. It's inspiration. And also humor. If the post makes you smile, it means it will be remembered, and the reader will form a pleasant association with your group.
Write a story from your life, about your hobbies, observations of other people, how you are “bombed” by other people’s limitations, about defeats, how you dealt with them, about the difficulties you encountered, about meetings with clients, etc. .
The reader will be interested if you use comparisons (with cooking, with sex, with nature):
The event serves up a pie of impressions, in which the delight of the performances of famous actors is mixed with the benefits of meeting potential business partners.
Animate the object of the description and speak on its behalf. Fantasize. Don't be afraid to experiment.
If you take on a story, let it not be a stylized fairy tale of a “perfect” person, tell people about your mistake, about the problem that you were able to solve, and tie the meaning to what is happening in the post:
I sat in a cafe and thought about how I used to make people wait, deliberately neglecting punctuality. Before I arrived at the meeting, the person had time to drink at least two mugs of coffee. Everything went on like this until...
4. He argues.
Build your argument according to the following scheme: thesis-argument-support, where:
- A thesis is a statement that needs to be proven.
An online store is an easy way to open your own business.
- An argument is a argument in favor of a thesis.
Online business requires minimal investment.
- Support is a theoretical explanation of an argument that gives it credibility. Support is based on knowledge. It must be clear and understandable.
to open an online store, it is enough to order a copy of a one-page website for 5,000 rubles, and spend only 10,000 rubles on purchasing goods.
Add an example - a fact from life that confirms the truth of the argument:
Today in Russia there are more than 40 thousand online stores, of which 35,400 are micro-stores, and the number is growing steadily, which means that you can right now.
Or a picture:
When the online store was launched, I couldn’t leave my computer because questions about the product kept coming in all the time. Just as I was getting up to pour myself some coffee, I heard the sound of an incoming message. There’s a clang, and I slap my slippers back on the parquet and sit on the chair again.
5. It holds attention . To prevent the reader from falling asleep, the post contains sentences of varying lengths. First a short one. Then a little more authentic. And one more sentence is longer than the rest. And again short. But you shouldn’t use very complex sentences in posts for VKontakte; it’s better to break them down into several sentences. Where you can put a period instead of a comma, feel free to do so.
The post addresses the reader personally. Have you noticed that it’s more pleasant to read posts where trust shines through, where the conversation takes place as if one-on-one? He mentions his reader (car enthusiast, mom, writer, gamer).
6. He is original . In addition to interesting text, the ideal post contains an enticing headline and, of course, an original image. Say no to stolen content. If you have your own logo, use it. Hire someone who will come up with jokes and draw simple pictures for your posts.
Once the perfect post is created, you can ask the reader to do what you want. Subscribe, write a comment or something else. If the post is written for reposting, be sure to add a plus sign or some kind of bonus. Show the benefits, why the person should repost - promise a gift or send useful material in a personal message, organize a raffle.
Naturally, the content of the post should be unique and useful for the reader. There is no need to rewrite ready-made content; 80% of the Internet environment is filled with this kind of publications. Read, understand the issue, collect information, and then arm yourself with your imagination and sit down to write. And you will definitely succeed!
Author: Ekaterina Slovo. For DLUX SMM
What can you write after a banal hello?
Many guys in love find it difficult to decide even to say a simple “hello, how are you” or they rack their brains about what to write to a girl instead of “hello”. But those brave souls who finally decided to take the first step face another question: writing “hello” is not so difficult, but what to do after a mutual greeting?
You should remember the basic rule: the first phrase should interest you so much that you want to answer it.
It must be taken into account that it is important not to scare the girl away. It is especially important to be able to maintain a conversation. Here you need to provide as much information as possible so that it is interesting to the interlocutor. At the same time, it is important that the girl talks a little about herself. You should remember that you must be interested in the person you are talking to.
To understand what a lady likes, you need to study her profile on social networks. After the work done, you can find out a lot of information about the girl. For example, you should ask about her studies, her future specialty, and why this particular department. If she is still a schoolgirl, you can ask about her favorite subjects: a great topic that allows you to find out her thoughts about her future life, profession, interests.
Template phrases that you can write to get to know her better:
- “Which institute are you studying at? Looking at your photographs, it is clear that you live a rich life.”
- “What is your favorite subject, and what do you just can’t stand? What do you like most about school? (In this situation, the conversation may turn to the topic of dislike.)
- "Where do you work? How long? Why in this place? Do you like your job? Do you like what your job gives you?”
We must not forget that sentences and phrases can be changed depending on the communication style of the fairer sex.
What and how to post?
It would seem nothing complicated, take the recording and publish it in the group. No, it’s not that simple. In this matter, you need to take into account factors such as the topic of the community and the frequency of publications. Now, in order.
Frequency
You can post up to 50 posts per day in a group (VK limits), but you don’t need to try to use up the entire limit. The frequency directly depends on your topic. If these are serious business projects, online or offline stores, narrow-profile niche communities or other similar topics, then in this case quality is better than quantity. In such communities, it is enough to post 1-3 posts a day, alternating educational information, interesting facts and humor with posts that reveal the main topic of the community (for example, information about a new product in a store or news about an upcoming business conference).
If your community has a broad topic (travel, love, funny pictures, movies, music - as an example), then a large post limit is in your favor. Such projects require frequent posting and usually post from 10 to 50 posts a day, alternating funny memes with posts about love, sad pictures with educational facts, etc. It all depends on the topic, and more on that later.
Subjects
I am sure that none of the people reading this text will post in a vegan group about the divine taste of kebab just taken from the fire. I think the example is clear, but now a little more detailed.
Find your niche. Find your topic. You should not post the same type of posts, you need varied content, but you must clearly understand what you want from the community and what its purpose is.
If you are a business coach, you will need beautiful, motivating content on the topic of making money and free leisure. Store owner - give your target audience educational stories about the brands you sell and the use of the items on offer, find cool memes that will appeal to your potential customers, and don’t forget to periodically indicate your contacts in your posts. Entrepreneurs - tell us about the benefits of your product, its advantages, show the backside of its production, be open to customers. Flower sellers - write posts on VK about love, suggest that beautiful flowers would be a very good gift for a best friend, add romance and cuteness to the group. And these same examples apply to everyone else! Study your audience, interact with them, and then you will understand them.
And, for starters, a few examples of good posts. 1 and 2 – can be successfully used by the tourism business, or some romantic or feminine destinations. 3 is a great option for the store community. 4 is an example of correct (above) and incorrect (below) situational content.
How to greet a girl in VK in an original way: original greetings?
Today the social network Vkontakte is one of the most popular. It's a rare girl who isn't registered there. In this regard, online dating is becoming very popular. After all, both men and women feel more confident and calm on the other side of the computer - finding a soul mate online is much easier.
How to start a conversation on VK in order to greatly interest the girl you like? Before you write any message, first send her a friend request. If she answers positively, you are halfway to success. To consolidate the pleasant effect, you can evaluate her notes on the wall and photographs. This will draw attention to you and your page and pre-position it towards your personality.
A few original greetings that you can take note of.
- “Hello, I have a feeling as if you and I have already crossed paths somewhere, have you by chance been to any party recently?” Here the girl will have a lot of memories running through her head, and by guessing where you could meet, you can find out about her favorite places and hobbies.
- Another unusual option is to write any confusion and wait for the interlocutor’s reaction. After some time, you need to apologize and explain the situation by saying that your account was hacked, and that more than anything else you wanted to offend her in some way.
- On VKontakte there is such an opportunity - to send gifts. Use this feature and give your beauty a cute picture with compliments. This beautiful act will make you spend a little of your savings, but will make a good impression on your chosen one!
- And, of course, one way is to portray an inveterate romantic. Tell her about any fateful signs that led you to her. For example, a prophetic dream or some kind of inner feeling that arose when seeing her photo.
This is what a guy who doesn't know what to text his girlfriend might look like.
“Guide to Vkontakte: what to write about on the social network so that people read you?
We continue to talk with experts about how to become popular on social networks. We have already talked about how to promote your VKontakte page and how to make a brand page popular. Today Ksenia Burzhskaya, the creator of the #tak community and SMM bureau (VKontakte - more than 120 thousand subscribers and 20 thousand readers on Facebook), using the example of her projects, will talk about what texts are interesting to users, what will give a viral effect and what formats they like readers.
What is your #tak community about? Why do users like it? How do you find interesting content for him?
Article on the topic 5 functions of VKontakte that you might not know about The #so community was originally conceived as an assortment of the best content from other media (Snob, Slon, TV Channel Dozhd, Colta, Russian Life, etc.), only in one place and short. I had a theory (and I still have it) that it is more convenient for a person to subscribe to one thematically limitless community and receive various interesting news than to fill the feed with a hundred communities. So I tried to create one rich source for people like myself. As it turns out, this is in demand.
Users like it because it is not limited by any boundaries, but at the same time it holds the bar: we work at a certain intellectual level, and I really like that there are a lot of such people, that they actively participate in creating content, share their findings, and strictly monitor so that we don't get carried away. As soon as you make a vulgar joke, a group immediately comes with condemnations. It is important for readers that we remain the way they loved us.
Now there is a team working in #taka, and we are not specifically searching for content for it: a lot is sent by readers, and we find some in the process of working on other projects. Initially and to this day, it’s all something I found completely by accident and wanted to share.
What content is more popular on VKontakte? Are there known successful and unsuccessful topics? For example, for some reason we don’t have enough shares - today we’re posting a cat. Or some good topics for more serious communities, where there will always be a lot of comments?
It cannot be said that some content on VKontakte is more popular than others. In general, it is impossible to generalize - on VKontakte, like in any city, there are smart and, excuse me, not very smart, small and large, the content will be different for them. There are public pages with a certain theme or degree of seriousness, and there is complete trash. Everyone chooses their own audience. And the cat always works. On Facebook too. It's eternal! We have a section #kisankadaya, this is how it is written, and this is the meme we created. We post only special kitties, and if we forget, readers remind us: “There hasn’t been a kitty for a long time!” Let's hang the pussy."
Photo: Screenshot
Is politics now a successful topic or an unsuccessful one in terms of reposts and discussions? If we are not talking about the media, where it is impossible without this, but about communities that, in principle, could not write about it.
Politics is a popular topic of discussion in media communities, yes, but we sometimes #post something that we think is important. This is our civic position and desire to understand. Whatever one may say, this still concerns us, even if we only love cats and Van Gogh, and nothing else.
Are there any new formats that users like?
We are constantly coming up with new formats as we work on other projects. We recently came up with a hero for a school science community. It was assumed that he would live only on social networks and solve fun problems with children, but in the end he became a symbol of the project, lived an active life on the site, even T-shirts with him will appear soon. And we just thought that the page for children should be run not by a human administrator, but by a beaver administrator.
You do SMM for the media, is there room for creativity there? After all, in fact, you only need to present material already written by journalists? How to present an article on social networks so that it gets a viral effect? What comes first in a social network – the text itself or the way it was presented to the public?
Article on the topic
Guide to VKontakte: how to publish entries in advance? There is more creativity in the media than anywhere else. In working on other projects globally, creativity begins and ends in the process of creating a concept: almost everything that we develop in the first week is then simply repeated in different forms. When working with news, you need to “create” online so that your news is presented differently from your competitors, while the media has much more restrictions - we cannot allow ourselves complete freedom, but it’s cool to put out the text so that they click on it , this is a difficult and interesting task. That’s why I really love working with traffic—the result is immediately visible, and in that very second.
It is difficult to answer the question “How to present an article on social networks so that it has a viral effect?” Here you just need to feel what the audience will like. That one line or paragraph that you want to click on. In general, this is an ordinary journalistic work with bright headlines: you just need to feel the power of words. Of course, a viral picture gives an explosive effect - likes, shares. But this will result in coverage, and only correctly chosen words turn into traffic.
What advice would you give to VKontakte users to be popular on the social network?
The only advice that can be given here, as in any work: do what you like, otherwise no project, including a public one, will be popular. It happens that we stop collaborating with projects that we ourselves do not like. You can't ask someone to love something you don't love yourself.
Continued: How to promote a page on VKontakte →
What to write to a girl so that she responds to the message?
When you meet a beautiful girl, you always rack your brain about what impression you left and how to remind her of your existence. Perhaps one of the best options is to send a message or SMS that she would respond to and be interested in.
The first message to a girl after meeting her should be unobtrusive and light: they do not need to show excessive interest and neediness. Such qualities especially repel a man and only irritate girls, so such a mistake should not be made in the first message. First, of course, you need to greet her, and then you can express your emotions.
Example message: “Hello again. I was very pleased to meet you and chat. I didn’t want to say, but there was something on your cheek.” This method is unusual, original, and it will definitely interest her and she will want to ask what was there after all. You don’t need to answer right away, wait about thirty to forty minutes, and then you can answer her that it was a dimple. This will be a very sweet display and will leave a beautiful impression.
How to write to a girl in an original way that she is beautiful?
One of the best ways to write to a girl to make her feel good is to give her compliments. This skill alone, of course, will not be enough, but spoken pleasant words will certainly inspire trust.
If you want to compliment a stranger on how beautiful she is, then it’s better to write something short and concise, for example:
- “How beautiful you are! I'm ready to tell you this again and again."
- “You look wonderful, I can’t take my eyes off you,”
- “I really like your dress, it suits you very well. You look so charming in it!”
- “Today was simply wonderful!”
- “You look like a girl who is very, very beautiful, but doesn’t know it. That's what I like about you."
It’s rare that a girl doesn’t appreciate a man’s sense of humor and will often choose the funniest one among different men. Compliments with irony and humor will make a positive impression on her, and she will definitely remember you.
The most correct compliment to a girl about her beauty is something laconic. If you already know the girl personally, then remember the last meeting.
Successful examples:
- “When I remember your angelic smile, I also want to smile. What happiness this is!”
- "I still see your shining gaze"
- "You are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen"
- "I admire you!".
VKontakte statuses about love are sad
My heart is not lonely, it is temporarily free...
We realize too late that we love those we lose...
It is impossible to kiss lovingly with your eyes open, because when you kiss lovingly, tenderness comes over your eyelids with careful little feet...
The worst way to miss someone is to be with them and realize that they will never be yours!
I never thought that saying goodbye could be so difficult...
Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.
There are six billion people on earth... six billion... no, damn, I chose you!!!
Your hugs are the only loop that I would climb into without even thinking...
Never say I love you - it will hurt you to hear a lie in response...
Hug me as much as you love me! - Should I strangle you?...
It’s one thing when they don’t love you... it’s another thing when they don’t love you!!
Everything I do, I do either for you or to harm you!
The most interesting thing about him was my love, now - nothing special...
You love not the person you want to meet, but the one you don’t want to part with...
Do you want me to give you my soul? I will do it, for sure - I won’t be afraid! You do not believe me? Do you think I'm lying? Believe me - I can’t live without you!
Take my hand and hold on, you are more than life to me...
After all, the soul is not an organ! But how much do you feel when it hurts...
I love you and miss you, I don’t notice other guys. I only need you, my beloved - with you I will be happy!
Sometimes it is easier to tolerate the deception of someone you love than to hear the whole truth from him.
Love is not a slave - it has experienced violence and oppression, perhaps even half the heart, and all in tears, but it will still leave!
How I suck... only he knows... my favorite teddy bear...
It hurts, said the heart. If you forget, time has calmed down. But I will come back sometimes,” the memory whispered.
There are headphones in the ears, glasses on the eyes, a chic gloss on the lips, and 3 locks on the heart so that no one else can break it...
And if I meet you again... I will hide the pain... I am an actress, I will play my best role...
Happiness is when you are understood, great happiness is when you are loved, real happiness is when you love.
There are moments in life when there are no tears in your eyes, but there is a whole sea in your heart.
The best place on earth is in the arms of a loved one...
Trying to forget someone means remembering him all the time. Reflections and memories only strengthen love...
Let a flying snowflake fall on you, kiss you, for me...
Love is an attempt to give what you don’t have... to someone who doesn’t need it at all... Love... Why is it?...
Love, of course, is intoxicating... but whiskey is cheaper.
Jealousy is stupidity, that’s a fact... But love is different... He who doesn’t love is a fool... And whoever loves, doubles!)
“I heal wounds,” said Time. “I inspire,” said Happiness. “And I hurt, lift you to the skies, and then throw you to the ground,” Lyubov grinned.
Don’t waste your life, it is not endless, appreciate every breath, moment and hour, because in this world, although not perfect, there is someone who prays to heaven only for you!
In fact, the offer to remain friends means: “Love for you has passed, but it brings joy to watch your torment.”
Anyone who has not seen a woman in love cannot say what a woman is.
I want to love and be loved, but I don’t love and am unloved...
Love was invented by those who deliberately wanted to mock.
The smell of your perfume is on my clothes, please come back to me, let everything be as before...
Who needs my love? I repeat to myself, years will pass unnoticed, you will forget about me, and in these lines there is already a lot of sadness and sadness, well, how can I forget everything that happened? How to forget about you?
I miss you terribly, I can’t find a place for myself, you too, I know, a piece of heaven, you are terribly missed, I don’t believe that there are angels on earth, separation is a bitch, we are far from each other...
The tragedy of each of us is that every new guy seems to us to be the one...
The worst thing is to be alone when there are so many people around!!!
Don’t call me friend, because you are not my friend, I am someone more for you, and you are my miracle!
I won't leave again, just don't leave!!!
It has happened in life, and so it will be, because for this we were born, those we love do not love us, those who love us do not love us!!!
Even if you're awesome, there will be someone for whom you won't be like that. And you will definitely fall in love with this person.
Oh, how I hate you, with all your strength and beauty... Because I cannot imagine myself if you are not with me...
The best guy is not the one who apologizes for everything, but the one who doesn’t create reasons for this...
Give me the letter "I". She is cool. It can connect everything you want: heaven and earth, day and night, you and me...
I don't want HIM to cheat on me with someone. It’s better that HE cheats on someone with me...
Is it so fashionable now? Don’t cry, don’t be bored, don’t love... Be shy to write, hide your feelings. Cheap “hi, how are you?” is in vogue. instead of bursting out “I LOVE YOU”
When I think about you, I smile. I've been smiling all the time lately...
I'm happy! I don’t care about all the nuances and vicissitudes of fate. I am happy, if only because I love one person very much... whom I see in the mirror every day.
How bad it is when you love your loved one, you cannot live without him, but he knows this very well and takes advantage of it!
I like rain. You can hide your tears in it...
He will only come back when you don’t give a fuck about him... It’s always been like that...!!!
Never leave the one who loves you for the one you like, because one day the one you like will leave you for the one he loves...
Still, he is the best for me...
Original SMS messages
If you decide to meet and court a beautiful girl, then you really want her to pay attention to you, remember you and make you stand out from the crowd of fans. What behavior should you choose in this case? How to write “hello” to a girl in an original way and start a conversation? In this case, you always want to be original and bright and touch a nerve. To make the girl of your dreams interested in a young man, you can write the following original SMS messages:
- I like you so much that I simply can’t do it any other way.
- The evening of our meeting has already passed, but your tenderness is still with me.
- I write messages to those I care about and care about. I am writing to you because such a beauty means the whole world to me!
- Even if you don’t answer my messages, I will always think about you!
- Hello! I like you very much. Tell me what to do and I will do anything for you.
What to write after a long silence?
In this case, several options are possible. It happens that communication with a girl stops after a while. If you want to continue, you should write first. In such a situation, a simple word “hello” and a question “how are you” will not do. Just honestly tell her that you miss her, you are interested in what is happening in her life, and so on. You can also, as an option, praise her latest photographs, ask for good advice on a topic in which she is knowledgeable.
If you ignore each other after a disagreement, again it’s better for a representative of the stronger sex to make the first step, and it doesn’t matter whether you consider yourself guilty or not. Admitting that you are wrong will only help you. In the end, it will be better for you if the relationship returns to its previous course.
Take action
Don't put off preparing posts until the last minute. Decide on a topic, draw up a content plan, prepare the best materials and then start! Get started, but continue to regularly monitor suitable information resources and choose the most interesting, useful and tasty content for your subscribers. Experiment, combine, supplement the main topic with diluent materials, but do it competently, prudently and carefully, and let the best VKontakte posts be yours.
Good luck!
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How to admit by correspondence that you need a girl?
Not every man can easily confess his emotions and feelings to the lady he really likes and needs. Everyone has a fear of being rejected for various reasons. So what should you write in this case?
Be romantic. Such confessions can melt the heart of even the coldest beauty. If you understand that the girl is attracted to you and reciprocates, then you need to overcome your fear and sincerely write about your feelings. It is much easier to do this through correspondence and it is much easier to decide on such a step than to stand face to face with the object of your adoration.
This method of recognition leaves a path to retreat. If the lady’s reaction is not what you expected, then you can write to her that it was not you who sent this message, but just your friends who decided to make such a bad joke.
What can you write to a girl on the wall in VK?
At the moment, posts on your VK wall most reflect your interests, tastes and hobbies. Writing to a girl on her page on a social network now means almost the same thing as publicly admitting your sympathy to her. But the main thing here is not to overdo it, because the less we love a woman, the easier it is for her to like us. Not only your posts should be on her wall. How to hook a beauty, what to write to a girl on the VK wall?
You can send a picture with nice words that you liked in the news feed or is similar to your case in life. Another successful way would be to send her an audio recording on her wall, the title of which will reflect your attitude and recognition towards her. But you should cheat a little and watch her playlist in advance so that she likes the song.
You can also send her a funny or touching video, your favorite movie or a movie that she told you about with such interest.